As dancers, we tend to get a lot in our heads and struggle to find the bigger picture. Personally, there are some days where I feel that I am improving and working hard and seeing a lot of progress. Other days I am plateauing, giving up. Seeing no hope in my future as a dancer. Now, yes, I may have over-exaggerated just a little bit. But for many dancers, these emotions are extremely common.
I am here to spread some light upon your lives and help you see the bigger picture!
We spend a majority of our lives in the studio, in front of multiple mirrors (mind you in a leotard and tights!), with many other people who are trying to achieve the same goals as ourselves. It is
intimidating. It may even make you want to quit. And that is normal. But think back and try and count all of the hours you have spent working hard, leading up to this moment. You can’t. Because there are just too many. You have worked so hard since you were a little boy or girl to be where you are today. Endless days of stretching, pulling your hair back so tight for the last show of your run of Nutcracker. Believe me, when you were eight years old, there is nothing more that you wanted than to be where you are today. In the studio with the “big kids”, achieving your dreams, being able to wear a spaghetti strap leotard.
When you find yourself feeling down and starting to give up. Think about where you have gotten in the last ten years, and try to imagine how you will be in ten years from now.
Dancers often deal with rejection. Honestly, I am not sure there is one dancer out there who has not dealt with rejection. Believe me, It is tough and devastating. But like Emma Woodhouse from Jane Austen’s, Emma, once said, “You must be the best judge of your own happiness.”
My advice to you is to always remember who you are. You are a hard worker. A dedicated dancer. An artist. No matter how prestigious the school you are auditioning for is or how famous the ballet company may be, no one can take away your hard work, dedication, and artistry.
Before going into an audition, or performing on stage, or even just taking a class, I think about who I am going to “channel” that day. Whether it be Marianela Núñez, Tiler Peck, or Sylvie Guillem, I’ve always had someone who I aspire to be. Although, to be honest, do I aspire to be them? Or do I want to be the best version of myself that has been inspired by them?
People don’t want to watch two of the same people on stage. They want to see two completely different dancers who complement each other’s dancing but have something incredibly unique to both of them.
For more advice and inspiration, here is an article from Dance Magazine: Lauren Lovette Isn’t Afraid To Send Shock Waves Through The Ballet World!
-Christiana ♡
Ps. Believe in yourself, because you’ve got this!




